How was everyone's Eid?
We had a 'quiet' Eid. My dad, in particular, wasn't feeling up to it because my grandmother is ill, with that disease that most people get to know: old age.
Anyhow, a quiet Eid meant we had Louise and her girls over for lunch. Oh, Louise's mother also came over from Pakistan, and they're all so cute and cuddly together. The girls love their grandmother; we went to an iftar at the masjid, and the grandmother was going to stay to pray taraweeh, with my mother, and the girls got really sad because they didn't want to 'leave her behind'. I only wish I had that connection with my grandmothers.
So yeah, they came over for the day. I was really excited because for once, we got all the little kiddies presents.
I KNOW. I know. That's supposed to be a natural with Eid, right? Well, my parents were never good at it, so I didn't really get many Eid presents, growing up. But at the start of Ramadan, it was SALE time, and I just had this brainwave: I know the strain on the family right now, in getting presents for the kids. But what if all of us, who had money to give, put in, say, $10 each, and at sale time, that covers a whole lot of toys. So I got presents for my little sisters - like actual stuff they'd like-
FLASHBACK: One Eid, my mother made the effort to get my older sister and I presents. She got us a plastic footy thingie on a chain. One: it was a footy. We hated Aussie Rules Football. Two: it was such a Guy present. Like, all our friends were getting Barbie, and they could all play together, but we had this plastic footy thing and we'd always be left out. Three: I mean, the last two could be tolerable if in fact we could actually KICK the footy. But it was a plastic thing. Solid plastic. You couldn't even play stupid footy with it.
I told her she needn't worry about presents again.
- and they were just so thrilled. And I got presents for Louise's kids too, and my little cousins, and I was happy. Then I felt bad because I put in all my money for the kids, and I had nothing left over to buy Linchy a present (SORRY LINCHSTER o_o ). But hey, my Eid present was a rock. Literally.
I was riling my little cousin about how I had gotten her a present, and she hadn't gotten me anything, so she gave me that rock, which, btw, she hadn't even painted herself. And then she said my older sister and I had to share. Yes. Kids. Still, I'm sure the kid who painted it for her did it with love ^_^
And yeah, so I went to Linchy's for dinner, and we watched Wreck It Ralph which was so cutefunnysadandepic. And that was that.
And now, I got photos of my nephew! Lemme introduce:
| Little Mr Dubai: Yousuf |
SOOOOOOOOOOO CUTE.
Umm. That's it. Feel free to share your Eid happenings here, or link me to a blog, though I think I'm following most of you anyhow. Ta.
Peace in,
Laila

I thought I was the only one! For some reason, my parents never used to get us Eid presents or hand out Eidis like all the other parents :( I don't want to play oppressed childhood here, but I'm always asking them why they didn't just give us normal Eids. Kudos to you for breaking the chain and paying it forward :P
ReplyDeletex) You know, while I'm half thankful that I'm not the only one, I hope no one else is like us - it would make the whole kids-getting-presents-on-Eid feel like a huge myth... which would be mortifying o.O But how uncannily similar our childhoods were :P
DeleteAwwww. The little one's adorable!
ReplyDeleteAlso, you should keep the rock. It will probably come in handy if you should ever need must brain an especially clumsy robber who was stealing cookies from the cookie batch. KNOCK HIM OUT!
Still, though, I didn't get *anything*. xD No eidi. No rock. A slight side of emotional damage, but that happened less *because* of eid related stuff, and more like that it was *on* eid. I'm not complaining. One of my friends' balance-of-money actually went into negative because his little cousins gathered around him screaming 'Eidi, bhai, eidi' and he went '._.' and had to pay about 70% of his monthly earnings.
My family is all over in Lahore or Multan, and I'm stuck here where I am, with no cousins, or people to visit. ^^ Personally, I'm fine with that. Eid is...Draining. In other ways. Not sure I could handle guests right now.
I am keeping the rock ^_^ Not many people have them, you know. And I have a steadily growing selection of kidsy artsy presents from littlies. I just can't bring myself to throw anything away :P
DeleteBut not you too! No presents or anything?
*sends you a virtual painted rock*
& I'm pretty much in the same situation, except my family - besides the three ickle second cousins I have here - are separated from me by an ocean :( And I'm kind of craving the 'draining' that one can end up with after spending time with the Big Family. But admittedly, the 'quiet' Eid was nice ^_^
My parents never give eid presents too, but they do give eidi so I don't complain :P
ReplyDeleteThe rock is actually so colourful and cute!
I know I'm super late but eid mubarak :)
Hope you had a fulfilling ramadhan!
Actually, would you believe, she came to our house yesterday and demanded it right back? ^_^ Kids.
DeleteAnd it's okay, better now than never :) I hope you had a good one too.